Issues That Pissed Me Off Recently....

'Mood swing' sometimes can become a lethal weapon as any weapons you can name of in this world. It might create an invisible scar that even a 60-stitches scar on your forehead might look nicer if you want to compare the two.

People who have to work or live closely with people having serious mood swings problem might tend to become one of them if they couldn't handle the situation well. Long term of mental tortures is worst than a whip on the back.

To all the people who are victims of one or more mood swingers:

Although we are practically living in fear almost everyday, we have to pray for them for their souls are lost but they are still not aware of it. Let's pray hard that someday their souls would find the correct directions so that they would not feel so insecure and keep losing trust in people, especially those who loved them the most, and have this realisation that although they kept on hurting the ones who have been loving them all these while, those people who love them would not stop keep on loving and caring for them.

Let's pray hard....

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'Pre-Marital Sex' - Personally, I am not against this but of course, I would not want to get myself involved in this area because I do belong to the the 'traditional' group of people.

Of course, youngsters nowsaday might say, what's wrong with pre-martial sex? If the two of us didn't try out, how would we know that we can satisfy each other? Oh gosh! Sometimes, I wonder, even though sex is one of the important factor in maintaining a relationship, but I guess that should be the case when the two people become HUSBAND and WIFE, right?

Hello, people out there...please, don't ever think of having pre-marital sex is really an 'IN' thingy. Especially girls....even though you might say, 'What have I got to loose? I am just playing with him." If that is the case, YOU ARE TOTALLY WRONG! No matter how hard people are trying to fight for gender equality, we, females are still at the loosing end!

No doubt, you might bombard me again with 'Who cares about virginity nowsaday! Stop being so OLD FASHION!"

Of course, virginity would be worthless when its owner doesn't really care a damn about it. That's the problem. People only think for themselves and don't really think about the people who care for them, especially the ones who had brought them into this world.

Look at the rate of the abortion and the number of forsaken babies in Singapore...the rate is getting higher while the age of the girls is getting younger!

Perhaps we can only see this scenarios in soap dramas & movies...but don't forget, drama is a reflection of what people are doing nowsaday. So, one day, it can happen to you or your loved ones...what would you do?

It is easy for the guy to say "GO GET AN ABORTION, I HAVE NO MONEY TO MARRY YOU." But would it be easy for the girl? Therefore, girls...please, NO MATTER DEEP YOUR LOVE FOR YOUR BOYFRIEND MIGHT BE, if a guy kept on persisting on this matter...DUMP HIM! Refrain from any regretful circumstances while you can, or else, you are just signing a self-destruction contract the moment you say 'YES' to him.

You will eventually find someone who would wait for THE BIG DAY.

I am sure there are other more romantic things to do other than having sex between a couple during dates and special occasions if they are truly in love with each.

You must be wondering, why am I blabbering on this issue...it is really heart breaking to see people not thinking about the consequences, especially serious one, before they try to do something.

- Girl says she's pregnant because she had tested using the pregnancy kit twice and it indicated positive.

- SMS her the whole day asking her to confirm with a doctor first before she jumps into any conclusion. But she just kept on whining and crying about abortion and killing herself because the guy doesn't love her anymore.

- Managed to get the guy to accompany her to the doc on the same day. Result from the doctor was 'unsure'. Why would the result from the doctor be unsure when the pregnacy kit already indicated 'positive'?

- Girl threaten Guy with abortion if he doesn't marry her.

- Guy's dad wanted her to get an abortion because they don't have to money for his son's marriage.

What can I do to help? I wonder? When she told me that she's already slept with him after two months of dating...I was shocked. I mean, I know the guy and I can predict that he would not be the guy that you would want to marry under this situation! But she die die wants to marry him and ask me to help. Am I his mother?

I really wanted to scold her for she still got the guts to tell me that when the guy kept pestering her to have sex with him, her females friends already asked her to dump him knowing that it won't end up good, but she still ignored their advice and gave in.

First, she threatened him with an abortion and sucide in order to get him to marry her, when he told her about his father's decision, she didn't want the abortion anymore.

The thing is that she might not be pregnant at all for the doctor didn't even confirm and she's create a havoc over this. I mean, if she had listened to her friends earlier, wouldn't all these issue be avoidable and she can have a clean break with the guy?

What can I do to help? When she just doesn't listen at all? It really hurts...already having my hands off this matter since both their parents knew about this and I am only an outsider...wish them good luck!